0001——Imagine——John Lennon——《The John Lennon Collection》

网易云音乐播放:Imagine——John Lennon

  Imagine there’s no heaven
  想象没有天堂
  It’s easy if you try
  试试看,这很简单
  No hell below us
  在我们脚下没有地狱
  Above us only sky
  在我们头顶只有蓝天
  Imagine all the people
  想象所有人们
  Living for today …
  都只为今天而生活
  Imagine there’s no countries
  想象没有国度的世界
  It isn’t hard to do
  试试看,这并不难
  Nothing to kill or die for
  没有杀戮也没有死亡
  And no religion too
  也不需要宗教
  Imagine all the people
  想象所有人们
  Living life in peace …
  都在和平中生活

  *You may say I’m a dreamer
  你也许说我是个梦想家
  But I’m not the only one
  但我并不是惟一的一个
  I hope someday you’ll join us
  我希望有一天,你也能加入我们
  And the world will be as one.
  全世界合而为一

  Imagine no possessions
  想象一个没有财产的世界
  I wonder if you can
  我在想你能否做到
  No need for greed or hunger
  没有贪婪,也没有饥寒
  A brotherhood of man
  人们像兄弟姐妹的生活
  Imagine all the people
  想象所有人们
  Sharing all the world …
  分享整个世界

  (Repeat )   (重复)

0500——Moonlight Flower——Michael Crétu——Moon, Light & Flower

网易云音乐播放:Moonlight Flower——Michael Crétu

  Come with me in the silence of darkness
  在黑夜的沉寂之中跟随我
  I want to show you secrets of life
  我想展现给你生命的奥秘
  I will guide you where dreams could’t take you
  我将引领你到梦想不到的地方

  She seldom flew away in the night
  她很少在夜晚飞离
  You’re the moonlight flower
  你是月光之花
  You’re the voice of the night.
  你是夜的声音
  When you call I’ll follow.
  当你召唤我将追随你
  We’ll leave on the trip of delight.
  我们将远离踏上愉悦之旅

  I have been to the heights of my senses.
  我曾到过知觉之巅
  Feeling the touch of your cures,
  感受你关怀的抚触
  I have seen the magic things under night skies.
  我曾见过夜空下的奇迹
  Until the sunrise ended the spell.
  直到太阳在天空升起
  You’re the moonlight flower
  你是月光之花
  You’re the voice of the night.
  你是夜的声音

《楚门的世界》结尾台词

  Do you feel this way, like you can’t help yourself all your life?
  你有没有这种感觉,好像一生都身不由己?
  Maybe I’m being set up for something. Like your whole Life has been building towards something.
  我可能受到别人操纵,好像一生都身不由己。
  I have given Truman the chance to lead a normal life. The world, the place you live in, is the sick place.
  我给了楚门过正常生活的机会。而你所生活的世界,是一个病态的世界。
  What right do you have to turn a baby’s life into a mockery.
  你无权把一个生命当成一场秀。
  The world may be full of cheating,however we never lack friends with a warm heart.
  有时候世界虽然是假的,但并不缺少真心对待我们的人。
  Listen to me, Truman. There’s no more truth out there than there is in the world I created for you. Same lies. The same deceit. But in my world, you have nothing to fear.
  听我说,楚门。外面的世界,跟我给你的世界一样的虚假,一样的欺诈,但在我的世界,你什么也不用怕。
  Good morning, and in case i don’t see you, good afternoon, good evening, and good night!
  早安,假如再碰不见你们,祝你们早安,午安,晚安!

我选做一个温暖的人,向着太阳生长,不卑不吭,清澈生活。

  I choose to be a warm person,growing towards the sun,not humble,clear me.
  我选做一个温暖的人,向着太阳生长,不卑不吭,清澈生活。

  过自己不想要的生活需要勇气
  过自己想要的生活
  不但需要勇气 你还得有能力

  喜欢谈论痛苦的往往是不识愁的豆蔻少年,
  而饱尝人间苦难的老叟却唱起了欢乐颂。
    ——周国平

  婚姻这个东西,我比较信那句话:“最后,我们都是在跟一个人的人品过日子”。

  Love is someone who understand how to love themself.
  爱情是留给懂得爱自己的人。

  You see what you believe.
  一个人相信什么,就会看见什么。

献给妈妈

  We think we love our children like our life,
  but we don’t know that children love us without reservation.
  很多时候,我们以为自己爱孩子如生命,却不知道,孩子爱我们更无保留。
  Being with a child can save your soul.
  和小孩在一起,可以拯救你的灵魂。
  We always let our children learn from “other children”,
  but our children never ask us to be “perfect parents”.
  我们总让孩子学习“别人家的孩子”,可孩子,从未要求我们做“完美的父母”。
  In his heart, his mother is a princess.
  在他心里,妈妈就是公主。
  We are so lucky to have each other in this life, you are irreplaceable.
  何其有幸,今世我们拥有彼此,无可取代。
  Thank you for being my child this life.
  谢谢你,今生愿意做我的孩子。
  Our love is always mixed with requirements and expectations,
  but our children’s love for us is simple and pure.
  我们的爱,总会夹杂着要求和期待,但孩子对我们的爱,简单而纯粹。
  If you like a person, even you close your mouth and cover your ears,
  people will still see that in your eyes.
  喜欢一个人,闭上嘴巴,捂住耳朵,也会从眼睛里跑出来。
  Between parents and children, parents need to be more grateful.
  原来,父母子女一场,要感恩的,终究是我们。
  We always think that children are young and don’t understand anything,
  but in the matter of loving you, he knows better than anyone else.
  我们总以为孩子小,什么都不懂,可在爱你这件事上,他比谁都懂。
  Children’s love for their parents is inborn and profound.
  孩子对父母的爱,与生俱来,赤诚深厚。

TED:想要真正改变自己,该怎样做决策?

  So I’m a professional poker player, and today, I want to talk about three things that the game has taught me around decision-making that I find apply to everyday life.
  我是一名专业扑克玩家,今天,我想谈一谈牌局教给我的可以应用于日常决策的三个决策。
  Now the first of these things is about luck. Now, like poker, life is also a game of skill and luck, and when it comes to the biggest things we care about — health, wealth and relationships — these outcomes don’t only depend on the quality of our decision-making, but also the roll of life’s dice. For example, we can be perfectly health-conscious and still get unlucky with something like cancer. Or we can smoke 20 a day and live to a ripe old age, and this kind of ambiguity can make it hard for us to know how good our strategies are, sometimes, especially when we’re experiencing a lot of success.
  第一个就是运气。生活就像扑克游戏,需要技巧和运气,当面对我们最关心的事情——健康,财富,和人际关系——其结果都不只跟我们做决定的质量有关,也取决于生活中的运气。例如,我们在非常注重健康的情况下,也仍然会不幸患上癌症。或者一天抽20只烟,也能同样活到99,这种模糊性有时候让我们很难判断我们的策略究竟有多好,尤其在经历了多次成功之后。
  For example, back in 2010, I won a really big poker tournament known as the European Poker Tour. And because I’d only been playing full-time for about a year, when I won, I assumed I must be rather brilliant. In fact, I thought I was so brilliant that I not only got rather lazy with studying the game, but I also got more risky, started playing in the biggest tournaments I could against the very best in the world. And then my profit graph went from a thing of beauty to something kind of sad, with this worrying downhill trend for a long time, until I finally realized that I was overestimating my skill level, and got my act together.
  比如说,在2010年时,我赢得了一场真正意义上的扑克锦标赛,欧洲扑克巡回赛。再加上我当时仅仅全职玩了一年的扑克,获胜之后,我觉得我一定非常聪明。事实上,我觉得自己已经如此聪明了,所以不仅懒得去钻研游戏,还开始变得喜欢冒险,开始参加我能参加的最大的比赛,与最强大的对手对决。然后我的利润图表从让人赏心悦目,变得有些惨不忍睹,并且这种令人担忧的下行趋势持续了很长时间,直到我最终意识到,我高估了自己的水平,并开始重振旗鼓。
  And this kind of reminds me of what we’ve been seeing in the cryptocurrency space, at least in 2017, where the only thing that’s been going up faster than the markets themselves is the number of “senior investment specialists” who have been appearing out of nowhere. Now I’m not saying it’s not possible to have a strategic edge, but at the same time, it’s very easy to feel like a genius when you’re in a market that’s going up so fast that even the worst strategies are making a profit. So when we’re experiencing success, it’s important to take a moment to really ask ourselves how much of it is truly down to us, because our egos love to downplay the luck factor when we’re winning.
  这让我回想起了在加密货币领域的见闻,至少在2017年,唯一比市场本身上升还快的就是不知道从哪里冒出来的“高级投资专家”的数量。我不是说不可能有战略优势,但与此同时,当你在一个快速上升的市场中,即便操着最烂的策略也能赚钱时,是非常容易感觉自己天赋异禀的。所以当我们在经历成功时,应该花点时间扪心自问,这次成功中有多少因素真正取决于我们的能力,因为当我们获胜时,我们的自负感会倾向于淡化运气成分。
  Now, a second thing poker taught me is the importance of quantifying my thinking. When you’re playing, you can’t just get away with going, “Eh, they’re probably bluffing.” That’s just going to lose you a bunch of money, because poker is a game of probabilities and precision, and so you have to train yourself to think in numbers. So now, whenever I catch myself thinking vaguely about something really important, like, “It’s unlikely I’ll forget what I want to say in my TED Talk,” I now try to estimate it numerically.
  第二件扑克教给我的事,是量化自己想法的重要性。当你在牌局上时,不可能就这样想着,“呃,他们可能是在虚张声势。”这只会让你输很多钱,因为扑克是个关于概率和精确性的游戏,所以你必须训练自己用数字思考。所以现在,每当我发现自己在粗略地思考一些非常重要的事情时,比如“我大概不会在TED演讲时忘记自己想要讲什么,”我现在会尝试用数字估算它。
  Trust me, it helps a lot with the planning process. And the thing is, almost anything that could possibly happen here today, or at any point in the future, can also be expressed as a probability, too.
相信我,这真的对计划过程有很大的帮助。事实上,什么事情都有可能在今天或在未来某个时候发生,也可以被表达为概率。
  So now I also try to speak in numbers as well. So if someone asks me, “Hey, Liv, do you think you’re going to come along to that thing tonight?” instead of just saying to them, “Yeah, probably,” I actually give them my best estimate — say, 60 percent. Because — I know that sounds a little odd — but the thing is, I ran a poll on Twitter of what people understand the word “probably” to mean, and this was the spread of answers. Enormous! So apparently, it’s absolutely useless at actually conveying any real information.
  我也会尝试把数据用到对话中。如果有人问我,“嗨,丽芙,你今晚会参加么?”与其用“可能吧”这样的方式回复他们,我会给他们我最好的估计值——比如,六成。虽然——我知道这听着奇怪——但关键在于,我在推特上对人们如何理解“可能吧”这句话做了个调研,这是答案的分布情况。十分广泛!很明显,在传达任何重要的信息时,这个表达是完全没用的。
  So if you guys catch yourselves using these vague words, like “probably” or “sometimes,” try, instead, using numbers, because when we speak in numbers, we know what lands in the other person’s brain.
  所以如果你们抓到自己在用像“大概”或者“有时候”的模糊词语时,尝试让自己用数字,因为我们用数字说话时,我们知道对方会如何理解。
  Now, the third thing I want to touch on today is intuition. How often have you seen these kinds of inspirational memes in your Facebook feed?
  今天我要讲的第三点,是直觉。多少人在Facebook上看到过那些心灵鸡汤的图片?
  [Always trust your gut feeling and never second-guess.]
  始终相信你的直觉,不要怀疑自己。
  They’re nice, right? It’s lovely. Yes. “Trust your soul.” Well, they’re terrible advice. These are some of the best poker players in the world right now. Do they look like people who live purely off feelings and intuitions?
  挺正能量的,对吧?真的挺不错的。没错,”相信你的灵魂。“只不过它们都是差劲的建议。这些是世界上最厉害的扑克玩家。他们看着像是完全活在自己的感觉和直觉里的人吗?
  Look at them! Obviously, these guys are about slow, careful analysis, and that’s because the game has outgrown the days where pure street smarts and people-reading can get you to the top. And that’s because our intuitions aren’t nearly as perfect as we’d like to believe. I mean, it’d be great, whenever we’re in a tough spot, to just have an answer appear to us from some magical source of inspiration. But in reality, our gut is extremely vulnerable to all kinds of wishful thinking and biases.
  看看他们!很明显,这些人凭借的是缓慢,缜密的分析,因为现在的牌局已经不像当年,靠着纯粹的草根智慧和看人能力就能让你到达顶峰。这是因为我们的直觉并没有我们想象中的那么完美。当然了,如果每次深陷难处之时,都能灵光一现,让问题迎刃而解,那就再好不过了。但现实中,我们的直觉极容易受到一厢情愿的想法和偏见的影响。
  So then, what is our gut good for? Well, all the studies I’ve read conclude that it’s best-suited for everyday things that we have lots and lots of experience in, like how we just know that our friend is mad at us before we’ve even said anything to them, or whether we can fit our car into a tight parking spot. But when it comes to the really big stuff, like what’s our career path going to be or who should we marry, why should we assume that our intuitions are better calibrated for these than slow, proper analysis? I mean, they don’t have any data to be based off.
  那么,我们的直觉究竟擅长什么呢?在我看过的所有研究中,都总结出了直觉最适合于那些我们有丰富经验的事情上,比如我们在跟朋友沟通前,就知道他们在生我们的气,或者我们能不能把车停到一个非常小的车位上。但在做重大决定时,比如我们的职业规划或挑选结婚对象时,我们为什么要相信直觉会比慢节奏,适当的分析更适合处理这些问题呢?我意思是,直觉没有任何数据来支撑。
  So my third lesson is, while we shouldn’t ignore our intuitions, we shouldn’t overprivilege them either. And I’d like to summarize these three lessons today with my own set of memes, with more of a poker-player twist.
  所以我学到的第三件事就是:我们不应该忽视我们的直觉,但也不应该过分重视它们。我现在想要从一名扑克玩家的角度来总结一下这三个经验。
  ”Success is sweetest when you achieve it across a large sample size.”
  “通过大样本量获得的成功才是最甜美的。”
  ”Your gut is your friend and so is a cost-benefit analysis.
  “直觉是你的朋友,成本效益分析也同样。”
  ”The future is unknown, but you can damn well try and estimate it.”
  “未来是未知的,但是你可以努力的尝试并且评估它。”
  Thank you.
  谢谢。

会离开的都是路人

  It was a coldest day in December
  那是12月最冷的一天
  A day I always will remember
  我会永远铭记的一天
  I looked into your eyes
  我注视着你
  And faced my deepest fear
  面对着我内心的恐惧

  I had drifted too far
  我漂流的太远
  Far from you my dear
  我远离了你 亲爱的
  So how could I
  我怎么能
  Turn away from the one I love
  远离我的挚爱
  How could I
  我怎么能
  When I know what my heart’s made of
  当我知道我心之宿

  Could it be
  可不可能
  That your soul lives inside of me
  你的灵魂深入我心
  How could I ever say good-bye
  我怎么能与你告别
  Why was I so afraid to tell her
  为何不敢与她诉说
  That for her
  为了她
  I would fight a thousand soldiers
  我会与一千战士抗争
  But just like an angry child
  但却像一个生气的小孩
  I kept my feelings locked inside
  紧锁着内心

  There were rivers of tears
  无数的泪水
  Flowing from her eyes
  在她眼中流淌
  So how could I
  我怎么能
  Turn away from the one I love
  离开我的挚爱
  How could I
  我怎么能
  When I know what my heart’s made of
  当我知道我心之宿
  Could it be
  可不可能
  That your soul lives inside of me
  你的灵魂深入我心

  How could I ever say good-bye
  我怎么能与你告别
  How could I ever say good-bye
  我怎么能与你告别
  When you fall in love
  当你陷入爱河
  You never know how long it lasts
  你不会知道能持续多久
  But the one thing
  但有一件事
  I knew in my heart
  我一清二楚
  Is that I was fading much too fast
  那就是我消失得太快

  So how could I
  我怎么能
  Turn away from the one I love
  离开我的挚爱
  How could I
  我怎么能
  When I know what my heart’s made of
  当我知道我心之宿
  Could it be
  可不可能
  That your soul lives inside of me
  你的灵魂深入我心

  How could I ever say good-bye
  我怎么能说再见
  How could I say good-bye
  我怎么能说再见
  How could I say good-bye
  我怎么能说再见

Raw and Awake

  I shutter and shake
  合上窗 浑身颤抖
  The memory is raw
  回忆
  It’s awake
  如此生冷 清醒
  And even though I go around
  即便我在偌大的城市里
  In circles all over town
  四处逃奔
  It drags me down
  可记忆仍然 无处遁形
  You’re right
  你是对的
  You’re so right

  你说的很对
  I torture myself in the night
  在深夜 我是自己痛苦的刑求
  I know you love me but be smart
  我知道你爱我 但放理智些
  Offer solutions
  告诉我怎么才能够在一起
  Instead of your heart
  而不只是你的心

  Da da da da
  I shutter and shake
  合上窗 浑身颤抖
  The memory is raw
  可回忆
  And it’s awake
  仍然生冷 清醒
  And even though I go around
  即使我一遍遍
  In circles all over town
  在城市里四处逃奔
  It drags me down
  回忆它将我拖入痛苦深处

0499——Can’t Stop Love——Darin——LoveKiller

网易云音乐播放:Can’t Stop Love——Darin

  We stand here today, together as one
  今日,我们一同站在这里
  You brighten my days,
  你仿佛太阳般
  Just like the sun
  照耀了我的生活
  When everything around,
  当周遭的一切
  Is like stormy weather,
  如同暴风骤雨时
  We always survive,
  我们总是能幸存于此
  Cause were in this together
  因为我们在一起
  Whoever said that we could never hold on,
  谁曾说过我们不能长久
  Do now know I found my star
  他是不知道我找到了我的那颗星
  (Baby you are my star)
  (宝贝,你就是那颗耀眼的明星)
  And now I’m happy I stood up for so long
  此时,我高兴地久久站立
  And baby this is where our story starts
  宝贝,我们的故事由此开始
  I can’t stop,
  我无法停下
  Can’t stop this love
  我无法停下对你的这份爱
  No matter what they say,
  无论旁人如何闲言碎语
  I love you
  我爱你
  I can’t stop, can’t stop,
  我停不下来,停不下来
  I love you no matter what they say, I love you
  我爱你,无论他们说些什么,我都爱你
  They said this love was the impossible kind
  他们说,我们的爱完全不可能
  But we were strong enough to fight for this life
  但是我们已经足够强壮地去面对生命中的种种磨难
  I can’t stop,
  我无法停止
  Can’t stop this love
  我无法停下对你的这份爱
  No matter what they say,
  无论旁人如何闲言碎语
  I love you
  我爱你
  Now I’m carried away because I’ve opened arms
  此刻,我张开双臂激动无比
  You’re here to stay,
  你就在这里
  Deep in my heart
  在我内心深处
  They said that we couldn’t, but we did make it work
  他们说过我们不可能,可是我们的确做到了
  And nothing could stop us, not even two different worlds
  没有什么能阻止我们,即使我们身处两个全然不同的世界
  Whoever said that we could never hold on,
  谁曾说过我们不能长久
  Do now know I found my star
  他是不知道我找到了我的那颗星
  (Baby you are my star)
  (宝贝,你就是那颗耀眼的明星)
  And now I’m happy I stood up for so long
  此时,我高兴地久久站立
  And baby this is where our story starts
  宝贝,我们的故事由此开始
  I can’t stop,
  我无法停下
  Can’t stop this love
  我无法停下对你的这份爱
  No matter what they say,
  无论旁人如何闲言碎语
  I love you
  我爱你
  I can’t stop, can’t stop,
  我停不下来,停不下来
  I love you no matter what they say, I love you
  我爱你,无论他们说些什么,我都爱你
  They said this love was the impossible kind
  他们说,我们的爱完全不可能
  But we were strong enough to fight for this life
  但是我们已经足够强壮地去面对生命中的种种磨难
  I can’t stop,
  我无法停止
  Can’t stop this love
  我无法停下对你的这份爱
  No matter what they say,
  无论旁人如何闲言碎语
  I love you
  我爱你
  I can’t stop, stop,
  我停不下来
  No I can’t stop
  停不下来
  I can’t stop, stop,
  我停不下来
  No I can’t stop
  停不下来
  I can’t stop, stop,
  我停不下来
  No I can’t stop
  停不下来
  I can’t stop, stop,
  我停不下来
  No I can’t stop
  停不下来
  I can’t stop,
  我停不下来
  Can’t stop this love
  无法停下对你的这份爱
  No matter what they say,
  无论旁人如何闲言碎语
  I love you
  我爱你
  I can’t stop, can’t stop,
  我无法停止,无法停止
  I love you no matter what they say, I love you
  我爱你,无论他们说些什么,我都爱你
  They said this love was the impossible kind
  他们说,我们的爱完全不可能
  But we were strong enough to fight for this life
  但是我们已经足够强壮地去面对生命中的种种磨难
  I can’t stop,
  我无法停止
  Can’t stop this love
  无法停止对你的这份爱
  No matter what they say,
  无论旁人如何闲言碎语
  I love you
  我爱你